5 Things A Woman Wants From A Man In A Relationship

Most guy erroneously believe that to win a lady, they will need to impress them with spending spree at supermarkets, eateries, boutiques and foreign trips.

All these are good but it may not really book you a spot in the heart of a lady because she can receive all your kind gestures and still not love you.

There are 5 things every lady want to see in a guy before they really love him.

These are:

1. Godliness: Unknown to many that the number one thing most ladies want to see in a man before they commit themselves totally is not money but Godliness.

They love God-fearing men, men who are committed to the things of God because they know that such men will give them rest they desire in marriage.

2. Vision/purpose: Ladies want money and they can date some guys because of it but to commit their heart to you in for a lifetime, you must be a man of vision who is pursuing his vision vigorously.

Most times, ladies are looking for financial security and they know that only a man of purpose and vision guarantees that.

3. Good character: Guy’s physique can attract ladies but much more than that is a good character. Ladies love men with godly characters like gentleness, humility, generosity, kindness, trustworthiness, faithfulness, among others. A man of impeccable character is a lady’s desire anytime.

4. Good Company: Responsible ladies will not just commit their lives into a man’s hand until they certify that you keep a good company of friends. This is because they know that the association you belong to will have serious impact on your lifestyle.

5. Decency: Real ladies hate rival in marriage so they prefer to settle down with decent men. She wants to know how decent you are before she walks down the aisle with you. No lady will want to marry a flirt or a playboy.

Alamu Tosin

The writer is Alamu Tosin. I have three strong passions in life — football, blogging and movies — in that order. I love spending time with friends talking about the important things in life and hate nothing more than ‘authority’ and hypocrisy. My personal believe in life is that once an individual sets his/her mind to achieve something, it is totally possible. And oh!, I am a strong Lannister, because I always pay my debt. For writing or fixing gigs, contact tosinalamu@gmail.com.