5 Simple Guidance For You To Have A Seed Marriage

This is represented by the plate that contains the mustard seeds. Seeds are always ready to give more.

They give more than what was given and will not place a demand. In fact, it always gives its whole life in service for a bountiful harvest.

In a marriage where two people are connected, its always heaven on earth. Selflessness, service and sacrifice is the order of the day. Selfishness, self-centeredness and stinginess are far from them.

They are willing to serve each other and make the home a place to be for all, and they will end up building a great marriage.

A seed marriage needs positive actions and concerted efforts to come to be. It doesn’t happen by accident or wishful thinking or by prayer and fasting without effort; you can’t just find yourself in it by faith, confession, by Holy Communion, feet washing, deliverance or even anointing service.

While all these will help your marriage, it takes much more to make your home a blissful one.

1. BE A POSITIVE PARTNER: To build a seed marriage, you’ve got to be a positive partner. To be a positive partner, you must do the following:

 Think positively about your spouse, marriage, in-laws etc. (Proverbs 4:23)

 Talk Positively: Speak positively about your husband/wife anywhere. Also, married couples should talk to each other positively. Your words must always carry grace and joy to your spouse. (Proverbs 4:29)

 Act Positively: Let your attitude exude positivity. Never act to hurt. Endeavour to build up your spouse always. Act maturely, peacefully, and let your character be a big plus to your spouse.

2. BE A GIVING PARTNER: Be on the giving side of life. Do not be a collector or receiver. Learn the art of giving.

3. BE A FORGIVING PARTNER: You’ve got to learn to forgive your spouse if you want a great marriage. Let me warn you, your spouse will offend or hurt you. Forgiveness is the key. “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” (Ephesians 4:32 KJV)

4. BE ON THE SERVICE CORNER: Be ready to serve and appreciate service rendered by your spouse. When two committed servants marry each other, their result is always a great marriage.

5. BE INCURABLY ROMANTIC: Being romantic simply means giving pleasure and fun to your spouse. So, go ahead! Donate pleasure and fun, make joy happen. Touch your spouse, kiss and make love generously. That is what makes marriage a glorious one.

Alamu Tosin

The writer is Alamu Tosin. I have three strong passions in life — football, blogging and movies — in that order. I love spending time with friends talking about the important things in life and hate nothing more than ‘authority’ and hypocrisy. My personal believe in life is that once an individual sets his/her mind to achieve something, it is totally possible. And oh!, I am a strong Lannister, because I always pay my debt. For writing or fixing gigs, contact tosinalamu@gmail.com.